ONE DOOR CLOSE HARD ONE TO OPEN TO A BETTER LIFE.
YOU THE LITTLE ONE !!! YOUR REALITY GOT TO ME .?.?.
AND SO I PULL OUT THE WIRES!!!!!
AND AS A DUCK LETS THE WATER ROLL OFF HIS BACK SO SHALL I.
The World is Full of gorgeous, sweet women who would do anything TO have a guy like ME.
Whether we are 16, 28 or 46, whether the issue is friendship or intimacy, great relationships don’t fall out of the heavens on a favored few. They depend on a number of very sophisticated but man-made skills.
It is now clear that these social skills can be learned by everyone. Some few people absorb them effortlessly, as if in the air they breathe, from skilled models, typically in the form of parents. They may not realize they learned how to "do" relationships, they may not be able to articulate what they learned, but somehow they learned a few essential techniques. The most important include how to:
· gracefully enter and exit the activities and conversations of others
· "read" other people well
· find common ground with others
· defuse negativity
· peacefully solve conflicts
· enlist others in support of a goal
Make no mistake -- relationships are very complex. Many of us will go to our graves still trying to master them, or apologizing for the ones we messed up. Those who do not master the skills of social competence put themselves at constant risk of social rejection. Rejection is a powerful negative experience -- perhaps the most psychically painful of all experiences. It affects people profoundly for decades to come.
The socially competent know that relationships are important and so they are willing to make time for being with others. It is impossible to maintain quality relationships, and the motivation for solving the inevitable differences that crop up, without investing time in them.
By itself, friendship is one of life’s greatest sources of pleasure and happiness. Further, success in friendship paves the way for success in that most intimate of relationships, marriage. Studies show unequivocally that it’s the friendship part of marriage that makes marriage last. The skills that work among friends work between spouses -- the ability to open a conversation, to join others already engaged in an activity, to resolve differences, to control emotions, to plan time together, to provide emotional support.
COMMENT TO SCOTT FOR MYRIAM
SOON ALL THE PUBLIC RECORD
When hope disintegrates,
and dreams turn into ash
and homes and hearts
are robbed of laughter,
and joy is lost to tears,
MY FORTH WIFE
SHE LEFT ON JUNE 29 2005 120 DAYS AFTER HER GREEN CARD.
ON 08/20/2005 I WAS SERVED A PROTECTIVE ORDER .
08/27/2005 THE ORDER DENYING THE PROTECTIVE ORDER WAS GIVEN BY PRESIDING JUDGE.